Cesar Mario

Well, he was abused since he was around 8 and something happened to Alfonso. He was abandoned by his mother and shuffled around all over the Phils. with aunts, godparents, sisters and a brother or two. He was neglected and unloved for so long.
Perhaps that's why he married Prima Emma. His "Angel" in Nurse's white. She always stood by his side, no matter what.
I don't think he has mental issues except perhaps PTSD.
He's been through a lot. And I only tolerated his bad behavior for the sake of my brother, Kris. Because Cesar Mario is supposed to be his role model. And I didn't want Cesar Mario to be competitive with his own son. That's another reason why he didn't like me. I would never let him touch or harm Kris in any way. And that's why we fought when Kris was younger.
But to empathize with Cesar Mario, know that he never had a mother or a father. That's why he used to think of Prima Emma as Mom. He would even call her Mom. They say it's because when we were little we would call her "Emma". So he started calling her "Mom" so we won't call her by her first name. As we got older they used to call each other "Kid". Because they're just KIDS.

~emmaruth
going to shower

Older Brothers

I didn't date my OLDER brothers for several reasons:
1. They're "BROTHERS". Incestuous.
2. They dated my good friends/colleagues - Ange, Janine, Karen
3. They're FAST and I didnt want to be just another notch in their belt.
4. I was guarding my Virtue.
5. I didn't want to harm my family, karmically.
6. But I did have schoolgirl crushes at the time. Just 'healthy' crush.
7. Two are Scorpios and I always knew that any close encounter with a Scorpio may cost you a limb or two...literally.

~emmaruth

LGBQT & Girl Power

so I noticed several of my boards are missing, including
1. LGBQT
2. Girl Power

i am unsure of any others.
well, i made an LGBQT board because one of my nephews claims to gay, another nephew is confused by his orientation, and of course my other nephew who is 'bipolar'. It was really for them.
however, if I have successfully ungayed them, which is what I do, I won't remake the board. As long as none of my nieces and nephews are actually gay.

the girl power board was made during the growing METOO movement, when women were claiming abuse by men. And I wanted to interject. So I made the board. I won't remake the board as long as men treat women more kindly and courteously. If you want us to be WOmen, then please behave like gentiemen. Or else there will be a posse of She-hulks swarming everywhere.

~emmaruth

LGBQT

there's nothing wrong with loving who you love or how you identify yourself, unless it's criminal.
just do not get physically intimate in certain ways.
but love is love, regardless. And there's no shame in that ever.

~emmaruth